Jesus often taught His disciples using lessons from everyday life. He used what they understood to provide a launching point into the wisdom of the kingdom of God. I believe He still uses this method of teaching today as we live out our lives—as long as we have ears to hear.

Last week I decided that my son and I were going to visit my mom. My son had been asking for awhile to visit, and my mom mentioned the idea so I was on board. Then I thought it would be a good idea to tell my son (a 4-year-old) three days in advance that we were going. My motive was to give him something to look forward to and to build an excitement as we counted the days. But that’s not exactly what happened. Each morning he’d wake up ready to go to Gigi’s house, and then the tears started as I told him not yet. I kept reminding him that we ARE going, just not today. When the day finally arrived, I couldn’t wait to get in the car and drive just so I didn’t have to hear him ask me over and over when we were leaving. We arrived and had fun at a nearby park, and then I made the mistake of telling him plans in advance again. “We’re going to get pizza and then go to the store afterwards.” He wanted to look at toys at the store so instead of enjoying time eating delicious pizza, all he wanted to do was rush and get to the store. As I’m sitting with my son and mom, I tell her (paraphrased here), “He has no concept of time. It doesn’t matter when I say it will happen, he thinks it’s right now.” And then I heard the Lord do a little “Ahem” in my ear. He was pretty much saying, “You know you do the same thing, right?” I even said out loud at the table, “OK, Lord, I get it” and had to laugh.

The next day I was being good and NOT telling my son in advance that we were going to the zoo. I just said, “What do you want to do today?” He replied that he wanted to go to the park. Then I had to open my mouth and say, “Oh there’s a playground where we’re going.” Do you think he wanted to see the amazing animals in the zoo when we got there? All he kept saying was that he wanted to go to the playground. I told him that we will get there eventually, but we’re going to see some awesome animals on the way. When it became clear that the time was getting closer for the zoo to close and the tram had too long of a line to wait, we walked as fast as we could to get to the playground. We bypassed so many neat exhibits and rushed to get there that we couldn’t quite enjoy our crazy walk (uphill almost the whole way!). We finally arrived, and of course, he was blissfully happy just to play on the playground with other kids (it seemed their parents had a similar story to tell).

I kept saying to myself and to my mom that I’m just not going to tell my son anymore what we’re doing until we get somewhere. That would be easier, and maybe that’s for the best sometimes. But I know that God was showing me how we often are with Him. We look at children and think that they’re so impatient and have no concept of time, and then we mistakenly think we’ve grown out of this way of thinking. Too often we are just the same with God. He doesn’t have to tell us what’s coming next, but He often gives us directions whether it’s in Scripture or in our individual lives. And why does He do it? To make us impatient? No! Just like I was motivated by love for my son to see him excited and full of joy and hope that something amazing was about to happen, God our Father loves us so much that He wants to give us hope and a glimpse into the beauty of what’s to come. But instead of rejoicing , knowing that His goodness and blessings are coming our way, all we can focus on is “Why is it not here yet? I want it, and I want it now!” And we miss everything else around us and the beauty of the journey to get to that blessing. Maybe God is trying to shape us before we get there. Maybe we’re not ready for it if we had it right now. The truth is He doesn’t have to show us at all, but because His love is so extravagant He WANTS to show us His blessings in our lives. He WANTS to give us hope. He WANTS to build our faith as we trust that our Father is honest, pure, true, and holy. He KEEPS His word.

In Matthew 7:7-12, Jesus talks to His disciples about the Father’s goodness:

“Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened. Or what man is there among you who, when his son asks for a loaf, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, he will not give him a snake, will he? If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give what is good to those who ask Him! In everything, therefore, treat people the same way you want them to treat you, for this is the Law and the Prophets.”

The Father is kind and generous to give to His children who ask Him! But notice it doesn’t say He gives the good gift right away. Could He do that? Sure! But too often this is the expectation, and instead of rejoicing in anticipation and praying for God to prepare us for what He has in store, we get frustrated. Sometimes we get angry. I can say that because I’ve been there. “God, You said that this business would be successful, but nothing is happening!” “God, you said I would have another child, but it’s been years!” In reflection, this anger demonstrates my lack of faith. Yet the Father has been so gracious to teach me all of these things so that I can stop being an impatient child and learn to be a grateful disciple—one who trusts the word of the Lord God of the universe even when I can’t see over the mountain in front of me.

Just like I kept telling my son, “Just wait, we’re almost there,” He’s saying the same to each one of us: “Just wait, your blessing is coming. Trust Me, I am not leading you astray. You may have a journey to get there, but keep your eyes open for more blessings on the way. Keep your focus on ME and not on the blessing itself because you’ll miss more of what I have for you. I want to give you LIFE! Trust that My timing is perfect because I created time and am outside of time. You are in the best hands because I am IN all and THROUGH all and ABOVE all things. I AM.”

©Lauren Demuth